okay, why am i into this topic so much - well, it's the hottest topic in maktab, i remember when my friends had been talking or joking about it like we're immune much about it, like 'eh, nanti kao kawin jgn lupa buat event di FB arh!', 'eleh, nanti reunion kahwin empat suda si XXX tu..kehkehkeh', 'ui, boleh sudah kita kawin ne! dialog selepas spm" etc ;p
even in usrah, i still remember, surau gets so noisy, everyone was like, excited much? until we barely realized that the speaker, ustaz or ustazah said 'segala yang baik itu datang daripada Allah dan yang buruk itu daripada anna, maka kita akhiri majlis dengan tasbih kaffarah dan surah al-'asr' ;)
ini tasbih kaffarah yaa sahabat :)
ini pula surah al-'asr yaa sahabat ^.^
so, just moments ago, i watched a kuliah online on the stated topic, by ustaz erfino. i realised my view on marriage needs change. when citations from the Quran is used, i trembled, because they're words from Allah. Astaghfirullah. i know my mindset on marriage need to be changed.
he's a recording of the kuliah online. it's in Malay though, and it's about 2 hours long, but worth the time :)
why not spare some (of your fb-ing & blogging) time to listen to this? hope you find it helpful, as much as I did.
p/s; i took this from a friend of mine. this helped me a lot. thanks :)