women and men = maids and aliens?

everyone has their own rights to write in blog, that is why we consider it as a B + L + O + G = BOAST LIFE ON GADGET -.-

i thought it's no one's fault if one get offended or being offensive enough on one's entry, views, picture and so forth. that's what a blog does, right? it appears as what the owners want to; to upload pictures as big as a mansion, to put as many gadget as it is usable in real life, and even some would rather be sarcastic in their words; well, either purposely to voice out their views on something or just to gain others' attention. (so to increase traffic and to increase money from click rate and ads. *btw, i joined nuffnang, just, just now. HEHE*)

as the saying goes, words are way sharper than the sharpest sword. in real life, every single life gets hurt. but in this matter, i try to be neutral because both parties have their own rights.


click to enlarge. crop from a homosapien's blog.

hijab and women. muslim women wear hijab because it is in keeping with the commandments of Allah. through Muhammad, Allah’s words are that women should be modest, and cover their beauties like their hair and their chest. at home among family and in front of their husband, muslim women are allowed not to wear it.

i come in peace, not offending anyone but to remind myself as well.

it’s been a journey yet it continues; this is not the end. let me reiterate that, this is not my final view on hijab. nothing in life is final. we are dynamic beings living in a dynamic world. things are always changing, slowly morphing from one form to another.

the only constant is Allah. i just might act differently to those beliefs at different points in time. probably because of thinking about too many things; life, death, afterlife, how the things work, bad vs good etc.

perfection is not something i strive for. it's a misguided goal (these are someone's words and i'm holding tight with them). so instead of trying to be the perfect muslim, i try to be the best i can be. it may sound like the same thing, but it’s not. perfection is a standard, unrelated to me but being the best of me is the goal that i can completely understand with every fibre of my being. because i know myself well.

i was created as i am with all my bad personality traits as well as my good ones. am i wrong?

"we just have to; open our eyes, our hearts, and minds. if we just look bright to see the signs. we can’t keep hiding from the truth. let it take us by surprise. take us in the best way, guide us every single day. keep us close to you, until the end of time."
- open your eyes by maher zain -

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well, he owns the points, the exact points. YES, this is from a 'HE'. now i'm start wondering what my male friends (nanti cakap boyfriends perasan pulak -.-) had on their minds, about hijab itself and of course those various kinds of hijab and shawls that hit the market these days which happened to become girls' favourite? well, i'm definitely not excluded.

they are undeniably addictive and something to be shown-off.


grabbed this from google

well, at least, i've read the post. sarcastic to be honest but we can change. we can still turn things around; well of course to the right path, to His only path.

"you say we're on the brink of destruction and you're right. but it's only on the brink that people find the will to change. only at the precipice do we evolve. this is our moment. don't take it from us, we are close to an answer."
- taken from 'The Day The Earth Stood Still' movie

just don't grab the moment and be so negative about some mistakes. mistakes? i supposed to. this 'HE' assumed all of the hijab-wearing-girls knew the exact definition of aurat and expecting every single stylo-hijab-wearing-girls-who-upload-500kb-into-their-blog to be offended and listen to his teachings, no, they're more likely to be 'advices'. i'm not mad, neither angry nor offended. i'm just shocked, to see the comments. now, let's just agree with john gray...


btw, i've read this. literally explains both genders' emotional needs anddd, COMMUNICATION STYLE.

see? women like to demonstrate their feelings by being allowed to relate problems without interference. but when men communicate, they like to get to the point, and generally only want to listen if they feel the conversation has a point; women enjoy talking for its own sake, and are happy to listen unconditionally. but how can Adam and Hawa get along? by love and respect. it's good to have our own opinions as long as we respect each other. let's just start with respect, then we'll bring the love.

now, maybe the point is; some women are not happy to hear those sarcastic words from this 'HE'. are you happy making people upset? no. and are you upset when people happy? no. so, let's call it a day. i'm really tired when it comes to adam and hawa. i just ask for your tolerance and compassion. i know this is hard to read especially when you're that hijab-wearing-girl kan? no worries, whether it's destructive or constructive, it's our choice to mind it or not.

but frankly, this 'HE' woke me up. thanks for reminding and it's fine with me. recall recall my tenth new year's resolution; keep on motivating myself. i can always improve, kan? ;)



insyaAllah, i'll continue to study Islam, hijab and life’s workings. i am a naturally dynamic being. we are dynamic beings. so, there's no one to blame, really. Allah's always watching me, and the rest of us :)

salam :D

how i wish i'm still going to school -.-

so today's stuff went well, the birds were chirping like usual, as well as the dog next door, went berserk (like usual) for no reasons, neighbours were still doing their own things and ignored others' but i am way too far from the usual. after subuh, i decided to sleep back as my head went dizzy and all i had to do is to sleep back. (redundancy:sleep back)

soooo, here's the thing. 3 hours later; i woke up. it was 8, checked up my fb and got downstairs. mumy and abah were going somewhere and surprisingly, unlike usual; my big bro dressed up himself way too early (well, earlier than he used to be); and apparently, they were all leaving the house. well, i did ask why and what but nahh, my head was too dizzy to digest all the details. so, i don't know why (until now). -.-

soooo, i went to the kitchen and be prepared to consume anything's prepared as breakfast. (redundancy:prepared) well well well, delicious nasi goreng with colourful texture that will definitely kills anyone's hunger to just TASTE IT was there, i mean;on the dining table, just there...right in front of MY OWN NAKED EYES!! CAN YOU JUST IMAGINE??!! -.- and i just couldn't stop staring but those interneurones of mine kept transmitting signals to my brain; "just take a plate and EAT IT!!"


but i've been gooooood; i've never thought of finishing all by myself, right? ;) (hehe) sooo, i called my sister :)
(kind-hearted me, kan kan kan? ;) )

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come'on, why don't you just get down here and EAT??!! heloooo??? that diet excuse won't work anymore!! you're NOT FAT!!! now come down and EAT!!


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grrrr, you're skinny laa kim, you want to get any skinnier??!! -.-







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as the black crow passed by with some loud crow sound;cawing?
i dont know laa -.-






plus, the crickets' singing..wait..during daytime??



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am i dreaming like they did in Inception??





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real me : "no i'm not."

dreaming me : "can i have my own totem to test if this is real or not??!!"

real me : -_______________-''

dreaming me : "WHAT??!!!" (sounds so serious like kononnya kena offer belakon dgn leonardo d caprio dlm inception -.-)

real me : "do you know how you get here?? How you're actually here??? where were you just now?? how come you're here??!!" (like my bricks of house is going to crack into pieces or something and all the subconscious of leonardo d caprio is staring at me)

dreaming me : -___________________-

real me : "YOU'RE NOT DREAMING, YIN"

dreaming me : "so where is MY SISTER??!!!"

real me : "SHE WENT TO SCHOOL laaa..double idi*t"

dreaming me : -___________________-

real me + dreaming me : "ya kann, today's school day -.-. then, what for wait? EAT LAAA.. -.-"

soooo, yeah, I ATE. -.-



moral of the story; stop daydreaming -.-
to make sure you're dreaming or not, search for totem


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p/s: you'll only understand the story if you've watched Inception, if you haven't, don't read this, you've wasted your precious, golden, silver, ruby, amethyst, diamond time. hehe, but do watch the movie 'cause this movie was like; the best 2010 movie i've ever seen!! :D

YOU REALLY HAVE TO WATCH IT. IT'S AWESOMEEEEE! O.O





and yeah, how i wished i'm still schooling today. this definitely wouldn't happen, kan? haha, but i did spend my time on something useful, likeeee; COOKING FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY, all by myself! teeheeeeee :D

bon appetit! :)


fried sliced fish with three different yet perfectly combined flavours :D
in BM; we call it - ikan tiga rasa -.-
(not interesting kan? ignore ignore -.-)




well, western people serve western lamb chop.
but tawau people serve TAWAU PAYAU CHOP. HEHE, go tawauu!! :D





the healthiest vegetable on earth yet is disliked by most of the children because of its colour texture and taste?? mustard green?
HEHE, give this to your children and they'll like it RIGHT AWAY!
TEEHEEEE :D




and there! the dinner's READY!! tadaaaaa! now, bon appetit people!


till next time. salam :D

1.1.11

everything just went and happened so fast, all of them are still very clear in my mind. like how i started my form 5, my birthday, the struggles, the friends, the-nearly-break-up-friend, the day i stepped into new room meeting new roomates, the loud singing in dorm and the other dorm, as well as the bilik study and etc lahh! heee :D

and especially how i've become so matured after my failure (well, just recently). nahh, no worries, i'm moving on, btw, congratulations to those who succeed! :D

even though it all went by so fast but last year was a roller coaster ride! i really wish it wouldn't end. :(

last year, i've achieved most of the things i wanted. i stayed in track & field, been beating myself up just to loose some weight (and apparently i lost 3kg, but it turned back to 45 since it was just water lost -.-). i've been a good girl, most of the time ;p and most of all, i did travel a LOT :D

i've grown up and have been using my brain a little bit more. i've stayed to who I am instead of caring about what others have to say. i met best friend, good friends, true friends; true love? haha, nah, not yet. gahh, i've been up, i've been down and i've been somewhere in between. (?)

okay, anywho; these are my new year's resolutions people :)

1. get closer to Allah. insyaAllah :)

2. no more self-destructing-diet. hehe, beat myself up though, keep on exercising (tennis drilling. HAHA)

3. work hard. earn money, SAVE MONEY. for abah and mumy and beli camera BARU :)

4. go to PERLIS (since this is the only ceruk i haven't reached. hihi)

5. widen my knowledge, just about everything.

6. always be prepared for any tests or exams. to be short, stop being the last minute person. 'cause you'll die. owh, YOU WILL DIE -.-

7. improve my cooking skill. master japanese, korean and JAVANESE cuisine. YUM YUM

8. DO NOT skip meals. any meal, especially BREAKFAST.

9. be a good good girl. listen to parents, no more prissy princess of me -.-

10. last but not least, keep on motivating myself. i can always improve, kan?

oooh, did i mention that i finished high school?! *can i get a woooot???!* hehe ;)

well, 2010 was my senior year at mrsm tawau. After 3 bloody years of being a junior in st patrick then another 1 frigging year in mrsm tawau as form 4 student, i finally became a senior. life was pretty hectic but i wouldn't have it any other way. i mean, i juggled everything; from my studies, my student council duties, assembling and leading the exco kesenian & kebudayaan, my math society, emcee for school regular occassions, my crazy extra class schedules, random girls'(& guys' + juniors') dramas and of course embracing change. i did have some family & friends time in between all of that. thanks, thanks a lot :)

wowww, i have quite a list there. oh myy, i did all of that in one year. haha, i feel soo old. i'll recap some other time.


oh, and for those who're going to serve for the country tomorrow (PLKN), or whenever the time laa, hihi, good luck guys! and sorry for the no-picture-post, i'm really not in the mood. i don't know, due to the early month, or maybe some things that happened last month, or, i suppose, last year. i don't know, just not in the mood and i promise, i'll be back with a smile. i'll be fine of course, it just takes some time. once again, thanks blog for hearing this little tiny voice.

happy new year. may Allah bless all of us and may 2011 become a better year than ever. hope so, amin :)